Friday, October 16, 2009

Points of Comparison

The author of "Come in CQ: The Body on the Wire," Ellen Ullman, and I have many similarities and differences. Something we have in common is the fact that we both use technology very often to communicate with those we know and do not know. I find myself checking my email and phone every single day, even at odd hours of the night, much like Ullman. She wakes up at 2 AM and goes online to see who else is awake. I have also awoken in the middle of the night and looked at my phone or checked my computer if I am unable to fall back asleep. Ullman uses her email to communicate with coworkers and friends all the time. I also use forms of technology such as email and texting to communicate with my friends everyday.

While Ullman and I may have something in common, we also have differences. I have never become attached to someone though email or technology as she has. She has formed an intimate relationship with another person by emailing back and forth. Even though I do use technology to interact with people all the time, I still interact with them in person and do not rely solely on technology. Ullman only speaks to Karl through email, and they develop an intimate relationship before finally meeting in person. I have never developed such a relationship with someone without first meeting them in person. I find it necessary to see someone in person often in order to get to know them better; Ullman does not have the same view. These are just two points out of the many similarities and differences that Ullman and I share.

2 comments:

  1. I also feel a need to check my phone and e-mail numerous times to see if someone tried to contact me. However, I agree that to establish a relationship two people should meet in person first before they begin talking electronically. The only people I do send e-mails or texts to, except for my roommate this summer, are those who I have spoken with in person.

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  2. I find it quite humorous that we all have this view of needing to meet someone before starting a more intimate relationship when there are so many people in the world that do online dating or meet people in chat rooms. I completely agree that I would never start a intimate relationship with someone I met online but this is probably because I have grown up learning that people are not always who they say they are online. In Ullman's time, it is likely people weren't as devious so she didn't have to worry about that as much as we do now. It is a safety factor for us now, at that time she probably didn't have that worry.

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